Hi,

Recently I started feeling a bit lighter. Meaning less stress and more focused on myself. Not gonna lie, moving to different location is very stressful and tiring.

I feel inspired cause for the last half of year or more I’ve been quite negative. Simply nothing was good enough. Although, no matter what is happening in each of our lifes, we still need to live and make the most of it. We need to enjoy it and make ourselves happy.

I would like to encourage you, to make yourself happy. Don’t expect others to do that, don’t expect your partner, kids or anybody else to make you happy. Take everything to your own hands.

Only we can be responsible for our own happiness. Seriously, there is no point thinking that other people can make you happy. Other people will do exactly opposite – make you unhappy in order to make themselves happy. Been through that and you know what I say – no more. I want to do my own things and not to care what everyone thinks.

Before I always had people that I shared my stuff with, I always would receive advises and suggestions, sometimes I would get critique. But you know what, if there is something I wanna do – people need to accept that. Yes, I might make mistake, same as you – you might make a mistake realising that certain thing doesn’t work for you as you wished. But that’s good, you move on and try other things.

To make ourselves happy, we need to understand what makes us unhappy.

Unfortunately, until we realise what we don’t like, we cannot know what we actually enjoy.

So my moto from now on is – make myself happy. Most of my life I was concentrating how to make others happy, I did a lot for other people, even sometimes things that didn’t make me happy and that backfired. People need to be responsible for their own happiness, they cannot expect that somebody else will do that for them.

We all do deserve to be happy.

So, whatever it is you wanna do. Get flowers, go to a dinner, watch a movie, buy some things – do it yourself. Seriously, don’t expect it from anybody else. You wanna go somewhere? Go there. Don’t expect others to do that for you.

Basically, you can only make yourself happy as only you know your actual true desires. Follow those goals and don’t expect others to fullfill your goals.

We live in the world that many bad things happens everyday, what we can do, at least make sure we are trying the best to stay in the light. ❤