Yesterday before sleep I started thinking about life, people and etc.

I wanted to say that we are all capable to be happy and instead of living other people life we should live our own. People always liked to follow somebody else, to listen to somebody else. I remember the life before social media. There was literally life of my own. I did not know what everybody are doing every day, not that I cared. I was getting creative, happy. I did not compare myself to anybody. Although I do see some positives in social media, we as people do not know how to use it for the benefit. We tend to start following somebody else’s life, forgetting our own. We care too much about authorities and we forget that the most important thing in this life is OUR HAPPINESS. Does watching others makes you happier? Or experiencing something new makes you happier

We are the universe experiencing itself. Listen, we were born in earth, in this galaxy, solar system. Have you ever thought how cool is that? No but honestly. We came to be at the very this moment. On earth. Experiencing everything the way it is. We are energies, vibrations and frequencies and I do not understand when people argue about that. We are made of nothing and at the same time everything. Universe is all of us. We – all of us – we are not different from each other. Race, age, social status – it literally does not matter, as we are all the same people experiencing same thing – LIFE ON EARTH. So do not tell me, we are not the one. We are and we always be. No matter how much you want to deny, we are here, because universe came to happen. We are here for the same goal – experience living. We are all connected and we make influence on each other.

I will talk now about influence on each other. Basically, I had bad experiences with people and instead of being like them – aggressive, rude and dangerous, I chose to be light, positive and good. I was basically hurt by people mentally and then physically because unfortunately, our mental health is connected to physical. I hated people, I had all negative mindset. But it was not helping me. It was making me feel worse. Until one day I learnt that you must send positive thoughts to universe (you can call it a God if you are religious). So… That is what I started doing. I started wishing all the best for those people. I wished them to move out to a better place, have a better life, get more money and etc. I am very serious. I wished every day. Praying for them to have good things

And. One day. It happened. Those people moved out, got better life. Whatever it is. They were not anymore with me and damaging me. THAT IS HOW IT WORKS. Wish well others and you will get it back. Listen, what happened to me, was totally not my fault. Circumstances happened to be like that. I realized that I want good things and you know what? I want others to have good things. Because we ALL deserve good things.

I do not protect murderers, or any other cruel people. What I am saying, stop judging and start understanding. Those people chose bad paths because something bad happened to them and they were not strong enough to help themselves, so they chose easier way – to be bad as that’s what they learned. Many many people, I would say everybody have mental problems and just small percentage choose to work on those problems. When we meet somebody, we don’t know anything about them. We don’t know what they have been through. That is why we must be kind to each other and be more understanding and send all the best wishes to everybody!

Remember, when you want things, ask for them through universe (or God). Your goals will come to you. At some point – when you be ready. If you send good thoughts, good karma follows. Now. If you understand that we all are energies. So, karma is basically an energy. Which flows around us and through us. What we put in that energy – it follows. If somebody is wishing bad – they are getting bad. If people wish good- they get good.

I want everybody to start understand that the life we have – we own it. It means we have all power to make it better or worse. I know, some people say – but I was born in a bad environment. I get your point. I was in the bad environment too and I couldn’t change anything as I was just a kid/teenager. You know what I did? Changed my perspective. I started concentrating at the things that made me happy. Like friends, music, writing, walks in the nature. Perspective gave me an escape until I was ready to actually move on.

Before I was 18, I always wished to move out. Yes, I said to myself – as soon as I get 18, I am moving out. I am changing my environment. That didn’t work out. I stayed there for 4 more years and you know what? I am happy. It went exactly perfect way. I grew as I person and when I least wanted – I moved out. Exactly – the least. Happens like that in life – when you least expect or wish – things come. But that is not what actually is. Changes come when we are ready.

My point is – stop looking what other people do and stop sending them negative energy. I am glad that we want to share our experiences, this is awesome. But many people instead of understanding and accepting starts judging and get jealous. If you see that this is what is happening to you and if you are comparing yourself to others – get out of social media. Focus on yourself and on your wishes. Focus what is your goal in life. Stop following others especially if it brings bad thoughts on your mind.

Send all the best to your enemies. Be better than your enemies. Stay strong! Everything comes in time! ❤