Either life controls you, either you control the life.

Why it is difficult to be an adult? Life and circumstances involves you in the game so much that you forget yourself, you forget that YOU live, but not a life lives. We can easily pay attention to what happens around us and usually we don’t notice things which are in front of our eyes. We need to remember, that our own strengths are not in the surroundings, not in the other people, but in us. But there comes life, pretending to be some kind of devil and starts to destroy everything, divert our attention. It tries to disturb us. Sometimes life puts on the mask and lies to us that life is perfect, it makes us slaves of money or beauty. Not always the negative things destroys a person, sometimes too many good things can have the same effect. Each day is a fight. We fight for our existence, we fight to be ourselves. If we lose or give up, life can do anything to us. Only after decades we can understand in what trap we were in.

That is why kids fascinate me. They are strong and they control the life. They don’t let circumstances to disturb them the way it disturbs adults.

For example, quarantine. Parents react badly because they need to be responsible they need to think how to survive and overall parents think about what could go wrong. Kids are different, they might understand that something is not right, but they don’t let anyone to disturb their mind. Kids are strong they can bear a lot. Because they keep on themselves. They don’t trust life circumstances and winds. They trust themselves.

That is why they control life perfectly. We all have been children but for some reason we forget that. We go to our independent life stage and we forget how to be strong. Look, circumstances are just circumstances. They come and go. No matter good or bad. What is not changing – us. We are they way we are just to show the truths for life. Not the opposite.

This is difficult because circumstances makes us run that circle and we don’t even notice that we forget ourselves, we forget love for ourselves, we forget miracles. We forget our strengths.

This is what happened to me. I let in surroundings, began to live in them, searched how to express my art through others. I looked far far away and I forgot what was in front of my eyes. I forgot what is truly mine and nobody else’s.

Don’t let life control you or make influence on you. Even if something is happening, some kind of drama or even some kind of winnings, react as calm as possible. We need to focus on ourselves and that everything will pass away eventually. Don’t live into failures or lucks. Always move forward and don’t stop. 😉