You might have heard about triangles in work, studies, maybe some workshops. Like, in film industry there is triangle of Director, Writer and Producer. In management there is Cost, Quality and Time triangle. I’m sure at least one of these kind of triangles you have heard.

Today I figured out that we have triangle in our life. Work (money), family (love) and let’s say self-education or your mental and physical health.

It is always difficult to do high quality things in every aspect of life because you need to learn manage all these things at the same time. I had this experience where I couldn’t manage all of them. In the end I lost myself. If you give for something too much, you lose to other sides.

Is it possible to manage all of them equally?

Usually, when somebody is working, family relationships are not well. When somebody gives their all attention to family, he can’t give his attention at work or even for himself. Same if you are focused only on your personality, work and family goes lower in priorities.

I can’t answer to that question though. But this is what I want. I would like to manage every aspect of my life equally and in calm matter. Manage my work, family and my health equally. So, that I won’t need to worry about these things. Life overall always gives so many challenges that is why basic things or this triangle should be in balance. To keep everything in balance is not easy but necessary.

Also, one thought from TV-Show ‘Reign’ – “The beginning is often promising, but the trick is to keep going that way”.