All around the world everyday we get a lot of comparisons between men and women. You can find a lot of articles about how women are from Venus planet and men are from Mars. But let’s talk about their look at the world, what they truly want and reach for. Or maybe they actually want the same thing? 

Women. What women are searching for in life? I would say women simply want to be loved, understood and accepted. Most of them want to have a beautiful family and to grow their children. If you think women wants to prove something, they definitely don’t want to prove anything to men. Mostly females are trying to improve something to other females. Again, especially talking about families. What I noticed that mothers are always competing who is the best mummy..  Women always searching for a men, because they want to be loved. To be accepted. Of course, there are feminists… These women usually don’t want family. Their mind works similar to men but still they are not men. What women always forgets, that we are not strong enough, we are more emotional and we spread more love and warmness. So we can’t be like men. Because we even don’t think like them. 

I have a really philosophical look at the life. I want to do what most of people don’t want. My perspective of life is simple – to stay myself, express myself anywhere I can and change the world for the better. My personal goals are the same as everyone – to have a good career, to have a family, to have a place to live, to have caring and true friends. BUT still I look at the world from the bigger picture. Honestly, sometimes I just want to go to the Tibet and become a monk. I look at life as a task I need to complete. I want to inspire and help people. Want to make a difference. 

Men. What do they want? It’s a bit difficult for me to judge or say anything, but I think men wants compete more, they want to prove for the whole planet, that they are the best men in the world. They really care about numbers. Like, how much do they reach, how much money they can get, how many women did they have, how many enemies did they killed at war… They are more logical and less care about family goals. Some of them wants it, but mostly the priority is career for them. They want to prove that their perception on life is rightest and truest. Anyway, they know that at least biologically they are stronger than women, so that is why they need to prove they can take care of anyone. I think life for most of the men is competition. That is why I would say their life is more difficult and complicated. You expect more from men. 

There you go, we have a balance. Women – creates family. Men – creates career. And both – creates ourselves… Both wants simply to be happy. And to have a connection. Of course there a lot of exceptions and especially nowadays, also people are changing their gender… Really, sometimes it is hard to understand both sides. When I listen how couples are struggling, what mess do they make for each other and how they are lost, it makes me ask the question – why? You know… Why it is happening? Why we are not capable to make relationships between men and women. Most of them are really toxic and not good relationships… Maybe the perspectives to life are changing? And why we can not have the same wishes?

Also, I would say we need to stop compare each other. Stop expect from particular gender something. Like stop expect at all. If life would be about trying to prove everything you do, we would just kill ourselves, because it is not the point. Women can reach for career and men for the family. Who cares? And if you care then why? 

Agree/disagree? Please let me know in the comments.

Also, let’s not forget that society and environment makes a lot of influence on us. From the young days we get examples about girls and boys differences. Parents and everyone underlines how we must to act and life goals are coming from them too.