Hi,

How are you?

This time I want to talk about life difficulties. Recently I’ve noticed that people are in war. They fighting not with each other but inside them. Humans are fighting with their inside dark and light.

Some beats darkness. Others choose not to fight anymore (commit a suicide). And some gives up for the darkness. I know, dark is really objective thing. For everyone it can have a different meanings. I don‘t know why we are fighting. But we are and since I ended my fight I’ve started to notice how others manage with it.

Maybe it is just a period when everyone tries to reach higher level. But not everyone can.

If you see that someone who is close to you is having that fight, support him cause that person really needs it. Do not make any influence. This is our personal problems which we have to deal. Just everyone needs to know that they have a support. Through war and through peace.

Next thing I want to discuss is about life tides or waves. A lot of people and even books says that we need to feel life tides and let them influence us. We must not resist them.

I can‘t agree with that.

I let these tides to control my life. I even let myself not to think what will happen.

And that is how bad things started to occur.

I think we must to take responsibility and control what is happening with us. Of course sometimes we can‘t do anything. But those things like – work place, friendship, relationships, creativity and etc must be controlled by ourselves. We have to decide what will happen. Like, to continue work or to find another job. To communicate with a person or end the friendship. This is OUR RESPONSIBILITY.

And we can not leave that for a life tides. Like, let‘s see what happens. Let it go.

NO.

We got used to the teenage life years. When our biggest responsibility was to make a homework and to be honest sometimes we all just copied work. So we are used to that people, school, university or even society takes a responsibility instead of us.

But this is weak and childish.

Adults must control their tides. Even if we have to resist them. Sometimes we need to follow tides. But we can‘t give it 100 percent control. That is how we can appear in a uninhibited island.

Let‘s start to talk with ourselves. Start to know what you want from the life. I can assure that you will be disappointed one or even more times. But nothing is simple nowadays.

We also got used to see beautiful stories how people successfully reached something. But no one talks about what difficult path they went before they achieved that…. They work hard. With their own mind and faith.

So, stop to throw away a responsibility.

Fight with your demons and WIN.

You are here, because the world needs you. And don‘t you dare to think opposite.