I know that we all have some insecurities, traumas and sad events on our life. We all know that sometimes the brightest looking human in our life can be totally asshole. We are all broken.

But only we decide to stay like this or to change. Some of us love to be in a victim role. Some of us like to be a heroes. Unfortunately, we always forget that we should care only about ourselves happiness. Yes, it might sound selfish, but I don’t mean to disrespect others. No, I mean that on first place we should care about our life and what we gonna do about it. And stop fixing other people life or even worse – destroy their life.

We all like to give an advice. But that is wrong. Always as we come up to some situation we only know one side of the story. So, we give advice to only that person perspective. And our opinion is subjective. On the other hand, when we know both sides usually we say – it is your business, figure out yourselves, guys.

So, what is my point?

With some help we feed our ego. With other help we feed friends ego. So stop.

Everyone has their life, their perspective, their wishes. Stop giving advices and stop accepting them. You only know what is best for your decisions.

For example. Me. I always take advices from many people. Like at least from 5. And then I accept that advice which I think was the best. And that is wrong. I can’t do that cause others do not live my life. They don’t know the situation for real.

Also, admit that friends say advice only from your point of view and friends (or family) will say anything that makes you happy and they actually don’t care about that person who hurt you. Or who did something for you.

So. STOP. We all make mistakes. Even if you think that you did nothing, I can 100% ensure that you are wrong. If you get in trouble, think what you did wrong and then make conclusions. Cause we are not Gods and we do stupid things…

Anyway, remember, that you live your own life and only you know what is best for your situation.

Even if you make another mistake, at least you will know that you did it and there will be no one to blame for. When we listen for other people opinions we just get rid off responsibility of actions. And if something goes wrong we always can blame others. Think about that…

And also stay strong. There is only 1 month till new year and I am so excited!

Have a nice week! ❤