One day I found a nice qoute on Facebook: “No one is sent by accident to anyone”. Of course, this qoute I related with a guy. But now this thought sounds different to me. I understand it wider. Like, why in our life comes certain people? Why did you met him or her? Why did I met you?
We don’t know answers to these interesting questions. I think we all have heard a thought ( I can’t remember it exactly): there is friends for a day, season and for life. But why? Why we meet each other, hear something interesting and then leave? Why with some friends we experience so much while with others nothing? Why someone comes to our life just to cause a pain? I know, that some people and situations learns you something. But have you ever considerate why you met those people? For what purpose they was and is in your life? For example, the moment in bars. You can find a person which you will never forget but sometimes you left the bar lonely as you already are. Why sometimes you chat with person while you know it’s not making any sense? And what about meetings at the concert, theater or even park?
I always keep this principle/prejudice (I don’t know how to call it) but it confirms all the time. This thinking I found in one Paulo Coelho book: if you meet someone for one time you probably never see him again. But if you meet him/her twice, you probably see him/her third, fourth and etc time. 100% true. Of course, everything depends on us. If we like someone, we always make sure that we meet him/her again. On the other hand, we don’t know if he/she wants the same. And if he/she don’t? I think it’s okay, that some people do not want to stay with us. You just have to notice what this human being brought to your life. If you know the answer be sure you never meet him/her again. But if you have feeling that something is undone with him/her, life will bring him/her back. 😉 Trust me.
Anyway, I’m more interested about meetings in unexpected places. Not about those where you meet person in school, university or hobby group. These places you find people with the same interests. What about meetings in club, bar or even tinder? 😂 Or maybe accident meet on the street? What these kind of meetings give you? What is them purpose? 😱
Maybe I’m getting to deep in the things that doesn’t matter. But in my opinion everything matters. 😊
Egle Ku 