Why we always have to rush? Why we create some kind of time frames? And why we create goals for some period of time?

How we can know that time we have planned is enough?

Every day we make routine. For example: At 1 pm – lunch. At 5 pm – walk with a dog. At 8 pm – homework. We getting used to routine. But what it feels when nothing goes by plan – we forget. And when we have planned all day and suddenly everything goes wrong we feel frustrated. Anger takes us. We can’t understand: why bus is late; why person we were waiting for couldn’t come; why some events being canceled? We feel anger for the world, people and even objects.

Why I’m writing about time?

Today, was the day, I decided that I couldn’t wait anymore and I wanted to do something, that I had in my mind for so long… But person which I was waiting – didn’t show up. And while I was on the bus I thought – I will punch someone… 😀 I was so angry! I couldn’t understand: why when I decided to take a move life said – stop.

And when I had left only few bus stops to take off, I noticed women in front of me. She was sitting alone for a while and near her was a free seat. In one bus stop came in men and sit near her and they kissed.

Then one thought came up to my mind – don’t rush. Just don’t forget that other person also has a life, troubles and weird situations. And that doesn’t mean you have to stop. Everything happens in the way it should. This women probably wasn’t thinking – when he will come? She knew – he will come when it’s time.

We can not make things go faster, slower or even stop them. We only can make our mind to move on, or to go back. Time is not like that, what we think of. “Happy people don’t count the time” thought which has a reason to be truth.