I noticed how everyone life complicated is. We all have problems and some unique experiences. So, last weekend I talked with a lot of people. I heard so many sad stories. Maybe it’s my mission – to listen every broken heart. 😇 I’m good at listening but not good with advises.
So, this weekend I tried my best and I gave my advises. For two people. But I will talk only about one as he matters for me more than the other. And also, I can call him my friend. 👤 I didn’t ask him if I can tell his story, but I will try to this without small details… Maybe it’s enough to say that he is really disappointed with girls as his ex left him because of material things. Like he has no house. Funny, isn’t? She wanted a new house, a good car and etc. But he did not have that yet. So, she left him. And now, the biggest problem is that he thinks all girls are the same. All girls wants boys who has something material. I tried to argue with him and prove him, that he is wrong, but guess what? Of course, it didn’t help. I had a month to think about this situation. And I found a good (not the best, but anyway) example. If to be honest I imagined it. 😊
Example:
Imagine homeless searching for food. And he sees two men. One of them is really rich. Homeless can easily to beg him for help, but this rich guy will never take actions by himself. The other isn’t rich. He dressed simply and looks like everyone else. But this guy has the sandwich. And he offers for homeless this sandwich bravely. So which one would homeless choose? 🙏
The answer – not the rich guy.
Why? This guy shows respect and kind of love we all searching for. He does not ask for this sandwich money, just same respect and love.
The same with the girls. If every girl would choose rich guys there wouldn’t be any true love. And it doesn’t matter what my friend is trying to prove. I believe he will find that one girl. This guy has a really big scar but he is handsome, kind and good person. 😊
Would you like to hear that other story I have? 🙏
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